{"id":5352,"date":"2019-01-11T15:04:56","date_gmt":"2019-01-11T14:04:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.monitor-bk.cz\/?p=5352"},"modified":"2019-01-15T11:13:12","modified_gmt":"2019-01-15T10:13:12","slug":"glosa-glosa-jinej-neznamena-spatnej","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.monitor-bk.cz\/?p=5352","title":{"rendered":"Glosa: Glosa: Jinej neznamen\u00e1 \u0161patnej?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Na za\u010d\u00e1tku byl nevinn\u00fd \u0161koln\u00ed projekt v r\u00e1mci v\u00fduky sociologie<\/a>. Na konci vulg\u00e1rn\u00ed diskuze na Facebooku, vz\u00e1jemn\u00e9 ur\u00e1\u017een\u00ed (do n\u011bho\u017e ke v\u0161emu se vlo\u017eili nejv\u00edce nezasv\u011bcen\u00ed) a mo\u017en\u00e1 soudn\u00ed spor. Pro\u010d? To nikdo nev\u00ed. Snaha se zviditelnit? Touha roze\u0161tv\u00e1vat spole\u010dnost? Anebo n\u011bkoho prost\u011b bav\u00ed d\u011blat z kom\u00e1ra velblouda.<\/b><\/p>\n

Nemysl\u00edm si, \u017ee by tato \u0161koln\u00ed aktivita m\u011bla b\u00fdt n\u011bjak \u0161kodliv\u00e1 pro v\u00fdvoj mlad\u00fdch lid\u00ed. Ne\u0161lo p\u0159ece o nab\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed, aby chlapci za\u010dali nosit sukn\u011b a d\u00edvky si na\u0161ly n\u011bjak\u00e9 po\u0159\u00e1dn\u00e9 chlapsk\u00e9 zam\u011bstn\u00e1n\u00ed a v\u00fdchovu d\u011bt\u00ed p\u0159enechaly mu\u017e\u016fm. \u0160lo zejm\u00e9na o p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost k debat\u011b na t\u00e9ma odli\u0161nost\u00ed mezi lidmi a bour\u00e1n\u00ed stereotyp\u016f. Pro\u010d ne? Kde jinde by si m\u011bli mlad\u00ed lid\u00e9 utv\u00e1\u0159et zdrav\u00e9 n\u00e1zory, ne\u017e ve vyrovnan\u00e9 diskuzi, kterou jim poskytne \u0161koln\u00ed prost\u0159ed\u00ed? Jak jinak se maj\u00ed nau\u010dit slu\u0161n\u00e9 komunikaci a zohled\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed odli\u0161nost\u00ed ostatn\u00edch? Takov\u00e1 debata ve \u0161kole je moderov\u00e1na vyu\u010duj\u00edc\u00edm, kter\u00fd m\u016f\u017ee p\u0159\u00edpadn\u00e9 vyhrocen\u00e9 n\u00e1zory usm\u011brnit. A\u017e se pozd\u011bji mlad\u00ed lid\u00e9 dostanou do podobn\u00e9 diskuze v hospod\u011b u piva (a \u017ee se do n\u00ed dostanou), kde u\u017e na n\u011b \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd supervizor dohl\u00ed\u017eet nebude, m\u011bli by to zvl\u00e1dnout bez ur\u00e1\u017eek a p\u011bstn\u00edch souboj\u016f.<\/p>\n

Sukn\u011b u chlapc\u016f v tomto p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b byla z\u0159ejm\u011b jen takov\u00e1 metafora; zjednodu\u0161en\u00e9 vyj\u00e1d\u0159en\u00ed, \u017ee lid\u00e9, pokud po tom tou\u017e\u00ed, mohou d\u011blat jin\u00e9 v\u011bci, ne\u017e kter\u00e9 jim spole\u010dnost p\u0159isuzuje na z\u00e1klad\u011b jejich pohlav\u00ed.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 sama jsem zast\u00e1ncem sp\u00ed\u0161e tradi\u010dn\u00edch rol\u00ed. Model, kdy mu\u017e pracuje a \u017eena se star\u00e1 o dom\u00e1cnost mi p\u0159ijde jako norm\u00e1ln\u00ed (le\u010d v dob\u011b, kdy jeden plat rodinu prost\u011b neu\u017eiv\u00ed, bohu\u017eel nere\u00e1ln\u00fd). A j\u00e1 bych byla mezi prvn\u00edmi, kdo by se ozval, kdybych m\u011bla dojem, \u017ee se n\u011bkdo sna\u017e\u00ed m\u00fdm d\u011btem ve \u0161kole vtloukat do hlavy n\u011bjak\u00e9 zvr\u00e1cen\u00e9 teorie. Pokud v na\u0161\u00ed spole\u010dnosti nap\u0159\u00edklad existuj\u00ed snahy p\u0159estat naz\u00fdvat t\u011bhotnou \u017eenu nast\u00e1vaj\u00edc\u00ed maminkou, ale ozna\u010dit ji jako \u201et\u011bhotn\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk\u201c, a tyto n\u00e1zory by moje d\u011bti za\u010daly p\u0159in\u00e1\u0161et ze \u0161koly, to u\u017e bych se taky ohradila. Ov\u0161em k t\u011bmto teori\u00edm m\u00e1 zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00e1 akce na gymn\u00e1ziu skute\u010dn\u011b daleko.<\/p>\n

Podle m\u011b \u017eeny i mu\u017ei byli stvo\u0159eni tak, aby se chopili ur\u010dit\u00fdch rol\u00ed a vz\u00e1jemn\u011b se dopl\u0148ovali. Ale beru na v\u011bdom\u00ed, \u017ee ka\u017ed\u00fd \u010dlov\u011bk to m\u00e1 jinak. A to, \u017ee n\u011bkdo t\u00edhne k jin\u00fdm \u010dinnostem ne\u017e t\u011bm, kter\u00e9 \u201eby d\u011blat m\u011bl\u201c, je ka\u017ed\u00e9ho v\u011bc. \u017divot je p\u0159ece pestr\u00fd a ka\u017ed\u00fd jsme jin\u00fd, tak pro\u010d to odsuzovat? A pr\u00e1v\u011b aby tyto odli\u0161nosti mlad\u00ed lid\u00e9 neodsuzovali, ale tolerovali a respektovali, k tomu slou\u017e\u00ed podobn\u00e9 projekty na \u0161kol\u00e1ch. Jestli\u017ee si n\u011bkdo mysl\u00ed, \u017ee \u0161kola nem\u00e1 vychov\u00e1vat, ale pouze u\u010dit stroh\u00e9 matematick\u00e9 pou\u010dky a gramatiku, pak je na omylu. Proto\u017ee mnoz\u00ed rodi\u010de to dnes evidentn\u011b sami nezvl\u00e1daj\u00ed a ka\u017edou jinou \u010dinnost, p\u0159i kter\u00e9 se d\u011btem ve \u0161kole n\u011bkdo v\u011bnuje mimo samotn\u00e9 u\u010den\u00ed, bychom m\u011bli \u2013 kdy\u017e ne oslavovat lahv\u00ed \u0161ampa\u0148sk\u00e9ho \u2013 tak alespo\u0148 p\u0159ij\u00edmat s povd\u011bkem.<\/p>\n

Mezi lidmi existuje toti\u017e mnoho dal\u0161\u00edch odli\u0161nost\u00ed, ne\u017e jen ty, kter\u00e9 vyzna\u010duj\u00ed mu\u017eskou s\u00edlu a \u017eenskou jemnost nebo jin\u00fdmi z\u00e1jmy; jde nap\u0159\u00edklad o zdravotn\u00ed znev\u00fdhodn\u011bn\u00ed, barvu pleti nebo samotn\u00fd vzhled, kter\u00e9 si \u010dlov\u011bk nevyb\u00edr\u00e1. D\u00e1le t\u0159eba n\u00e1bo\u017eensk\u00e9 vyzn\u00e1n\u00ed nebo politick\u00e1 p\u0159\u00edslu\u0161nost.<\/p>\n

\u201eJinej\u201c je vlastn\u011b i s\u00e1m poslanec Fiala. Ov\u0161em co to znamen\u00e1 v jeho p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b, a\u0165 posoud\u00ed jin\u00ed.<\/p>\n

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